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Plannin’ and linkin’

7 Jan

Plannin’

In an effort to make 2012 a ballin’ year, I’m taking the goals I outlined (plus a few others, too) seriously and getting to work on progress. One step that tackles several goals at once is my old friend, meal planning. I wrote a whole post about my method a year and one day ago — ha! What a coincidence. I’m so far out of my normal routine, however, that I decided to get it going the old-fashioned way: with pen and paper.

At the top, I wrote some ideas and then had my mister pick two dinners he’d like to have. I then started to plan out when we would eat what at the bottom. I wrote a grocery list on the next page to make it easier. Basic but easy. I’ll give more details on any successful recipes this week.

I am excited that meal planning addresses more than one of my goals: reducing my dairy (everything I cook this week will be vegan), prioritizing diabetic-friendly meals, making progress on my financial goals (cooking at home is obviously cheaper than eating out all the time), and cooking dinner at home at least three days a week. Hurray for productivity!

Linkin’

I wanted to share a couple of links I loved today:

(from wilton.com)

25 clever ideas to make life easier. (Thanks to Sasha of the amazing Global Table Adventure for the link on Facebook!) I’m all about the walnut, the baby powder, the magnet, the cupcakes in a cone (having first read about them in Eat, Drink and Be Vegan), and the cookie bowls.

Speaking of Global Table, did you hear Sasha on Rick Steves this week? Go listen right now! Sasha’s an amazing cook and blogger and also a great person (and fellow Tulsan).

In some happy news, the Fitnessista is having her baby! Possibly right now. Wow!

I am planning to re-line the drawers in my kitchen because they’re, well, grody. I hit up my friend Google and found this design*sponge tutorial from the Wayback Machine. Easy, cheap, and adorable? Heck yeah!

I was looking for a vegan hot and sour soup recipe that wasn’t full of crazy stuff, and I stumbled onto Kathy’s Slow-Cooker recipe on the FatFree Vegan Kitchen. How amazing does that look?!

Alright, friends. I’m off to do tackle my some more goals (cooking dinner and doing yoga — did I mention I’m sick? From whence comes this energy?). I hope everyone has a fantastic weekend!

Putting it off

4 Jan

I am a Virgo and a procrastinator. Does that make sense? Part of the problem is that I work really well under pressure, so sometimes I push myself to that point to accomplish things that don’t really appeal to me. I will be the first to admit that this system blows. It causes stress and, worse really, it spirals out of control, creating a never-ending and never-improving cesspool of crap I don’t want to do.

Today’s 31 Days to Better Health post over at the Vegan Epicurean is all about breaking this nasty cycle. She asks, What Should You be Doing that You Have Been Avoiding? The first part of the exercise is to write a list of however many things you know you need to tackle. Here are a few of mine:

1. Get my finances in order. The move to LA has totally messed up my previously mostly organized financial situation. To be honest, I took a pay cut for this job, and that coupled with the increase in cost of living has left my bank account weepy.

2. Do more yoga. I used to look forward to my lunchtime yoga. I haven’t done it once since I moved. I know I’d be happier and healthier if I re-committed.

3. Something involving my car that I’m afraid to post until it’s actually done for fear the man might come bitchslap me.

4. Reduce my dairy intake. I can feel the difference physically and mentally when I eat dairy too much, but I’ve been in a gross cycle for the past year almost. No more.

5. Start cleaning my apartment on a regular schedule. For the first time ever, I genuinely love my home, and I want to keep it comfortable. I despise housework, but I know I’ll be glad for having done it.

6. Be a better friend. I mentioned this goal yesterday, but it’s something that’s been weighing on my mind over the past several months. I want to be the best friend I can be.

7. Get back on a diabetes-friendly eating plan. I never quite got the traction on this goal last year like I wanted, and we’ve both been eating terribly since the move.

8. Let go. This goal is not particularly measurable, but it is meaningful to me. I have trouble forgiving and forgetting, which makes moving on difficult. I don’t want to be that person any more.

9. Clear my name at the library. Yeah, didn’t take long for me to rack up fines. Bad Brigid. I miss reading, so it’s time to get myself back on the nice list.

The next part of the challenge is: “Once you are satisfied that your list is long enough please choose one item in your list to work on this week.”

I am going to commit to #2. Do more yoga. Since I’m currently doing none, “more” is even one time, and I will be totally fine with that. So, by midnight on Saturday, I will have done at least one yoga session. A 20-minute podcast is totally fine by me. I feel more relaxed just thinking about it.

Do you have any goals for the week? Share them here, and let’s keep each other accountable!

Resolved.

3 Jan

Well, it’s the beginning of the New Year, and the blogosphere — plus, you know, the real world — is exploding with resolutions for making life better, healthier, and shinier in 2012. I may have mentioned once or twice (see here and here on my old crafting blogs, for just two examples) that New Year’s resolutions aren’t really my thing because of how easy it is to fail and, therefore, lose resolve. However, I’m all about goals, as a totally Type A go-getter. I ruminated and set three main areas of focus for my life in 2012:

1. Make more stuff. I am at my most me when I’m being creative, whether it’s in the kitchen, on the couch with a lap full of yarn, bent over a notebook or computer, or on the stage. I lost a lot of my creative mojo this year due to a variety of circumstances, and I’m ready to kick it back into gear.

2. Do more things. I’m an extrovert but still mostly a homebody. It’s especially easy to fall into a never-leave-the-house routine here in LA, where everything’s so expensive, darkness falls earlier, and my commute is so much longer. However, I’m in one of the most exciting cities in the world, and there’s just no reason not to make time for concerts and plays and beaches and even sporting events. “Do more things” also includes challenging myself to try something new and step out of my comfort zone.

3. Help more people. I’m an idealist in a lot of ways, and that is reflected strongly in my career choice as a nonprofit professional. I get satisfaction from knowing that the work I do — even on days when I’m cranky or frustrated — makes a difference. However, I can always do more. I don’t have the disposable income to make big donations, but I can volunteer a few hours here and there. I can also be there more for the people already in my life. I’m not always the best friend, but I want that to change.

My 2012 goal-setting happened to coincide with something I just discovered on the Vegan Epicurean‘s blog: 31 Days to Better Health. Throughout the month of January, Alicia is challenging her readers to improve themselves mind, body, and soul through exercises and food for thought. Here’s today’s challenge: “Today we are going to focus on very specific goals for this month. For those of you who are not familiar with setting goals they need to be specific and measurable (so you know if you attained them or not), achievable (example no one will lose 30 pounds in a month so don’t set yourself up to fail), and they should be something that you really want.” I am following her prompt with January-sized goals of my top three overarching ones above:

1. a. Cook dinner at home three days a week every week in January. It’s better for my health, my bank account, and my creative spirit.

1. b. Make something just for me. It can be a cake or a bracelet, but it has to be homemade and just for me.

2. a. Go to the Clippers/Thunder game on January 30. Our seats will probably be in Orange County, but we’re excited to go. I’ve only ever been to one professional sporting event before.

2. b. Register for a triathlon. I have it picked out (and I even mentioned it before), but if I don’t register, I can’t do it! I’m scared and excited.

3. a. Contact an animal charity about becoming a volunteer. It can be a regular gig or a one-time thing; I just have to stop putting it off.

3. b. Call a friend just to chat. A couple of my favorite people in the world are going through rough spots. One is facing an illness and the other is recovering from a devastating loss. Tweets and texts only offer so much support and encouragement. This month, I will pick up the phone.

I would love to know what you are planning to do to set the tone for 2012. If you feel like sharing, leave me a comment!

Thanksgiving happened

30 Nov

I wrote a post about the detox I’m trying this week and then didn’t share it for one good reason: a disgusting migraine reared its nasty head, and I ended up consuming four of the five things I’m supposed to be avoiding. What is it they say about good intentions and the path to Hell? Oh well. My body should be back to normal tomorrow, so I’ll start again.

I had a nice holiday with friends in Bakersfield. There was much food (including a fabulous vegan and gluten-free mac & cheese recipe I hope to share once I extricate it from Jessica’s brain) and wine and football and fun. We did a clothing swap, and I came home with some great new stuff. Yet the only surviving photo of me from the weekend is this blurry monstrosity:

Yes, I’m modeling a pair of shorts overalls that, no, I did not take home, but I’m pretty sure I owned in the fifth grade. You are welcome.

Also, I’m running my first 5k on Sunday. Eek! Excited! Nervous!

I’m getting back into the cooking-and-eating-and-photographing rhythm, so there will be a legit food post soon. I hope you had a wonderful holiday!

Where I am

21 Nov

This post is not about food. It’s not about sunshine, butterflies, or rainbows either. It’s about life — my actual real life. If it reads like a mess, it’s because that’s exactly how I feel right now.

I want to tell you that life has just been busy, but there’s a lot more to my blogging absence than that. Yes, things have been busy, but things have also been hard. Kailey over at Snack Face recently wrote a refreshingly open post about the adjustments she’s been going through as a young woman new to the workforce. Though I have a few years on her, I, too, have been experiencing some ups, downs, stresses, and successes that have left me speechless.

Me, speechless? I know.

Every time I sat down to write a post the last month, I felt a floodgate opening that would tell you way more about the inner workings of my life than this food blog ever intended to reveal. I started Vegging Out to talk about recipes and vegetarianism and health and fun stuff, not the things that bring me down. I don’t think I’ve attracted a following who knows me — Brigid, not the writing — well enough to want to read about the hard times. Maybe I’m totally right, but I feel disingenuous not mentioning all of that stuff, the real-life stuff. I wrote very little about leaving my ex and even less about getting with Mr. X. It’s partly for privacy, but it’s also because I didn’t want to bore you. We’re all here for the food, right?

If the lovin’ from my oven is what keeps you reading, then this may be a post to skip. I apologize for that, but sometimes a girl just needs to get real.

We arrived in Los Angeles about 10 weeks ago. In that brief period of time, I’ve moved effectively three times, made two friends, been betrayed by one, started at a stressful job, endured hours (days?) worth of commuting, given up on cooking for weeks (not an exaggeration), been broke, been hurt, and cried more tears than I thought possible. I’ve lost a loved one, lost a large sum of money, panicked, and wondered if this opportunity was worth all the anguish. The following stressors are currently haunting me:

  • I miss my friends. I’ve never been a great friend in terms of reaching out to do fun stuff. I do think I’m always there when I’m needed, though. I guess I’m the opposite of a fair-weather friend. Anyway, I’ve been like that for years, and I’m very lucky to have a great group of gals who love me anyway. This past summer, I grew much closer to my ladies when one of nearest and dearests died. You remember this post? Less than a month into their epic trip, she found him dead of a drug overdose. I didn’t post about it before because I didn’t even know how. I’ve been friends with both of them since 9th grade; they’d been committed to each other for, gosh, seven years? The only positive part of his death was how close it brought all of us together. Then — poof — I was gone.
  • I don’t make friends easily. I’m a total extrovert, but I am not good at meeting and endearing myself to new people. I don’t know how I ever did it before, honestly. It’s very difficult as an adult to do that, at least for me. I’m trying to get over it, but it’s hard, especially since the first friend I made in LA screwed me over about a month after we met. I miss having people to call, even if I never call anyone. As a result, I’ve been feeling incredibly isolated out here. I’m just thankful I have Mr. X.
  • Work is . . . work. I don’t feel comfortable launching into a diatribe about my work situation, considering that I don’t conceal my identity all that well, but let’s just say it’s been rough, and there have been tears.
  • We moved. I told you about the roommate situation and its general badness before; well, it got worse, and we quickly ousted ourselves to a pad of our own. We actually love it, but we have been lacking many basic amenities (we slept on the floor several nights and went two weeks without a plate or anything to cook with), plus relocating is always expensive. We won’t get the rest of our stuff until after Christmas.
  • I’m nearly constantly broke. LA is ridiculously expensive. I knew that coming in, and we’ve actually managed our money a lot better than I feared initially, but the pinch is still there.
  • Traffic is an enemy in itself. That’s not an exaggeration. I think being stuck in hours worth of bumper-to-bumper every day is contributing greatly to my sadness.
  • I’ve been eating crap. Yesterday was the first time I cooked since, well, I don’t even remember. Before Halloween. It’s been awful, and I feel awful. Part of the reason I’ve been hiding from the blog is that I’ve consumed a lot of dairy of late. I feel like a failure, which is ridiculous, but it’s true. I’m slowly trying to get back into the habit of preparing my brand of healthy meals, but I’ve been mostly kitchen-less for quite a while now. That certainly takes its toll and quickly.
  • I have no outlets. I’m stuck in an awkward spot between really needing a creative outlet and having no energy to seek one out. I’m hoping that a return to cooking will help ease this some, but I also know sometime soon I will have to start being me again: baking, crafting, acting, dancing, SOMETHING. I don’t do well with a lack of stimulation.
  • Sully died. She deserves a post unto herself. I miss that little hair ball more than I can express.
  • Relationships are hard. All of them, from friendships to family to significant others. Add all these other stressors on top, and shit just ain’t easy.

Though things have been rough — and they really, really have — I’ve decided that yes, seizing the chance to uproot my life on my (our) terms and throw caution to the wind was absolutely worth the countless hours I’ve spent weeping. But it hasn’t been an easy conclusion, and it has been one that’s required way too much conversation, way too much tissues, and a very, very long list of mental pros and cons. The good news is that I’m slowly rediscovering ways to be happy again.

In all of the crap that has gone down, there have been some positives. Mr. X and I are closer than ever. It’s amazing what pursuing a dream can do: it can tear you down or build you up. Our bond is stronger than ever, and despite all of the icky crap we’ve mucked through in the last two months, he has been my one bright, shining point. I don’t know how I could have survived this cluster without him.

I have really miss blogging. I’ve missed all of you; I just haven’t known how to return. I promise not to turn this place into my free therapy, but maybe I’ll inject a little more Brigid here and there. After all, I eat real food to fuel my real life. You can’t have one without the other.

If you read this crazytown post, thank you. I really mean that. It’s hard to open up to the world and not know what kind of reaction you’ll get. I appreciate every one of you.

Cooking it up, Native-style

27 Sep

Last Sunday morning, I attended a cooking demo by Chef Tanya, the brains and personality behind Native Foods Café. The boy and I hit up the Culver City location of this legendary vegan foods mecca days after our arrival in Los Angeles. There I had possibly the best vegan meal of my life. I was dying to share it with you, but iPhoto recently ate 300 of my pictures, those included. It was a sad moment. Actually, the great photo munching was on my birthday, which was September 10 (in fact, it is every year!). I was already reluctant to turn 27, but that little fiasco didn’t help. Anyway, I had the Twister Wrap: Salad greens, fresh avocado and cucumber salsa, creamy chipotle sauce and your choice of crispy, blackened or grilled Native Chicken in an organic whole wheat wrap. I went with the blackened option of the “chicken,” which is actually “made from free range soy, wheat and pea protein.” I am so sad not to have pictures to share because it was unbelievable. From the authenticity of the blackened “chicken” to the creamy avocado to the delectably spicy sauce, I was transported. Since it was the special of the day, I also got sweet potato fries, which were tasty, but the wrap was out of this world. The boy ordered the Portobello and Sausage Burger: Juicy grilled portobellos, our homemade Native Sausage Seitan, caramelized onions, salsa pomodoro, sweet roasted garlic, creamy pumpkin seed pesto and mayo. He went crazy over it, too. Seriously, if you live near this amazing place, get thee there! I can’t wait to go back.

After a meal such as that one, when I received an email about the upcoming cooking demonstration in Culver, I knew I had to register. I showed up pretty much right at 9:30, the starting time, which was not the smartest idea. However, I’d been really sick the day before and almost bailed the morning of. I’m so glad I didn’t. Arriving at the start time meant I was at the back of the line to enter the restaurant, which in turn meant that I got the equivalent of the middle seat on an airplane. The chairs were packed in very tight, leaving me with no elbow room at all. In that vegan restaurant, I was the closest thing to a sardine. Note to self: arrive early next time.

Chef Tanya came out after we were all seated to start things off:

While she told us about herself and her background with meat-free living, the staff passed around little cups of housemade chai:

It was so good! I was surprised that it was soy-based since typically soy milk has a distinctive flavor to me – I was guessing almond milk. This was a warmy, spicy, perfect little hit first thing in the morning. (Let’s remember that I’m on the West Coast now – 9:30 is practically dawn out here, or so folks would have you believe.) While we sipped, Tanya explained that she grew up in a meat-eating household, but one that emphasized fine dining, fresh ingredients, and whole foods. As she grew into a teenager, animal rights became a passion, and eventually she gave up meat. One year in college, she rented a room from a woman who prepared fresh seitan (which she pronounces say-TAHN – I still like acting as thought it’s the dark lord) and tempeh. This opened her eyes to the possibilities of preparing healthy, earth-conscious meals in the style of the elegant veal and pork dishes served at expensive restaurants. Thus, in 1994, she started Native Foods. There are now 10 locations with several more in the works. One thing I found very interesting is that apparently 80% of the restaurant’s clientele are neither vegetarian nor vegan. That number surprised me at first, but remembering the boy’s reaction to his burger, I can certainly see why.

Then it was time to do a little cooking. Our first course was a creamy mushroom soup that featured shallots, leaks, dried porcini and fresh Portobello mushrooms, white wine, Vegenaise, and a few other flavors:

It was really, really tasty. I’ve gotten used to less fat in my diet, so this tasted oilier than I generally prefer. However, I’d still like to try it sometime replacing the Vegenaise with pureed cashews and reducing the olive oil. Tanya used this dish as an excuse to tell us all to keep a steady stock of leeks and shallots in our homes. She even demonstrated a great way to clean leeks thoroughly. Simply slice the ends in long strips without totally removing them and rinse. They should look like a fan:

Clever, huh? Those things can be a beast to clean.

The next course was a two-fer: sautéed beet greens and a raw beet salad. First the greens:

Scrumptious! I am not a huge Swiss chard or sautéed spinach fan, as it turns out, so I was excited to learn that I do love beet greens. They are earthy and strike the perfect balance between being too tender (like spinach) and too substantial (chard). Plus, the caramelized onions were delectable.

Then we got to try the raw beet salad:

I already love raw beets and only don’t eat them at home because I no longer have a food processor to do the grating. I may give it a whirl after this dish, though. The dressing she made was a combination of orange juice, lemon juice, olive oil, and fresh herbs featuring mint as the star. Mint and beets are a match made in heaven, and one I never would have considered before. The combination was just WOW.

The staff then passed Native Foods’s signature beverage, the lavender lemonade:

This stuff is seriously moan-inducing. It is hands-down the best lemonade I’ve ever had. It has a perfect balance of sweetness and tartness, which is so important. I’m not generally a big lemonade fan because most folks over-sweeten it. I like a little kick. If I didn’t, why would I be drinking something that is 1/3 lemon juice?! The lavender is divine. I must make my own version of this stuff.

The next dish was less of a demonstration than an explanation, especially since it had three ingredients – cauliflower, olive oil and salt. Basically the staff passed it around while Tanya explained why roasting cauliflower transforms it into such a delicious, warm, nutty dish (it’s the natural sugars). Here it is:

Yum! I am a huge roasted cauliflower fan, so I wasn’t surprised to go crazy over this, but it was perfectly placed in the demo. In fact, it inspired me to grab some for this week. I think it’ll be a great complement to the Asian noodle dish I’m planning.

While Tanya talked about the final dish of the demonstration, we all got to try the watermelon agua fresca:

Slurp. Good golly, this was tasty. It was pureed watermelon and mint. So good. I can say from personal experience that straight-up blended watermelon is excellent, too.

And yes, the final dish itself was a September Morning Apple Cobbler:

I’ve said on this blog many times that I don’t tend to love (or even like, really) cooked fruit. I have a few notable exceptions, and they are pretty much all in cobbler/crumble form (see my favorite ever, the Summertime Cobbler). This, too, was excellent. She used Granny Smith apples, which lent a little bite to the temper the sweetness, but it was far from a tart dish. Add in a healthy dose of cinnamon and vanilla, and it was love.

If you live in Southern California – or now Chicago! – please check out Native Foods Café at least for the dining experience. If you’re interested in the cooking demos, I highly recommend them, too. It was totally free and tons of fun. I was impressed both by the turnout and by the diversity of the attendees. Ages ranged from teens to retirement age, with tons of people in each age group. I will definitely check out one of these again.

If you’re interested in receiving a copy of any of the recipes (mushroom soup, sautéed beet greens, raw beet salad, roasted cauliflower, or apple cobbler), just leave a comment with your email address and which one(s) you want. I’ll be glad to send it/them along!

Such great heights

26 Sep

I had one crazy weekend, fo’ sho’.

Let’s backtrack for a moment to Thursday, though. The boy and I decided that our sedentary lifestyle was not doing either of us any favors, so a couple of weeks ago, I signed us up for free seven-day passes to the Y. On Thursday evening, we tried out our first class: cycling with Naomi. Wow. I thought going in that the class would be hard, but I was wrong – it was INSANE. We both looked pretty pathetic compared to the regulars, and we left in a decent amount of physical pain from atrophied out-of-shape muscles and uncomfortable seats. Would we ever endure such torture again? Heck yes. Naomi was awesome, even making us feel like rock stars despite our glaring inadequacies. See you again Tuesday night!

Before I called the work week quits, I met Lynn of The Actor’s Diet for “coffee.” She had Coke; I had tea. Yep, that’s how we roll.

The boy and I had a day of fun scheduled for Saturday, which included a trip to Magic Mountain. Wheeee! Other than the now-defunct (and small) Bell’s, he had never been to an amusement park. I’ve been to a few (I love you, Disneyland) but have always had a crippling fear of roller coasters – more specifically, plunging from extreme heights. When my friend from high school who lives out here suggested a trip to the local Six Flags, we jumped at the chance. First, though, we decided it would be a crazy good idea to rise at 7 a.m. for an 8:00 Pilates class. Um, yeah, you can probably guess how brilliant we felt by 8:55.

We dragged our sore, exhausted bodies to Target afterward to grab breakfast stuff for him (Chobani raspberry yogurt and pineapple – Naomi said the latter was good for the ouchies) and padded bike seats for our next cycling foray. Then it was home to eat (oats for me – I was too deceased to snap a photo, but they were yummy) and get ready for our theme-park day.

We arrived just as the clouds broke and the sun beat down on our tender scalps. Still, the weather was perfect, and I was in such a chipper mood that I agreed to hop on this bastard ride first thing. Did I survive?

Holla! Yeah, I did it, and I liked it. Consider Revolution a gateway drug, er, coaster. The boys were a bit braver than me throughout the day, hopping on everything big and scary.

By the end of the day, though, I willingly rode the Green Lantern – to which I had said an unequivocal “hell no” earlier in the day. Check out the video (not mine, for the record)! I actually can’t wait to go back and wish I’d been able to shell out for season passes, no joke.

The food, however, left something to be desired. I wandered a long way before I found a suitable veggie option: a bean burrito, which I had to tear apart to eat:

The beans were cold. It wasn’t totally disgusting, but neither was it satisfying or tasty. I had to grab an unpictured chocolate shake soon thereafter to avoid a blood sugar crash. I did discover a sit-down restaurant that has veggie burgers on the menu and only costs a little more; that’ll be the plan in the future.

But the day wasn’t about the food (thankfully). It was about the fun and company.

Sunday saw me at a work picnic honoring our volunteers. The spread was wonderful, and my plate featured the following:

A Portobello sandwich with tomato, roasted red peppers and goat cheese; pesto pasta salad; and an amazing green salad with strawberries, raspberries, blueberries, blackberries, green apple, wheat berries, and raspberry dressing. So, so good. There may have been a brownie or two, too.

I won’t show you a picture of dinner – let’s just say it may or may not have been giving into a month-long craving for sour straws. No, I’m not proud.

When was the last time you faced a fear and loved it?

Two health links

26 Jul

I read two different health stories that I wanted to share with you lovely folks. Here’s the first:

1. Rethink the Food Label. I saw this article linked by Michael Pollan on Twitter. In short, it announces the top-three picks in a challenge to redesign food labeling in more user-friendly and intuitive ways. Here’s the winner:

And here’s my favorite, which came in second:

What’s your favorite label?

2. McDonald’s Trims Its Happy Meal. OK, I’m sure no reader of my blog will jump for joy at this article, but do you think it’s a step in the right direction or a band-aid on an open wound? I tend to lean toward the latter. And the question I’m really interested in: how do you feel about toys in kids’ meals? I honestly don’t care one lick; it’s the quality of the food that interests me.

I can’t wait to hear your feedback!

The Dreams of an Indoor Pug-tzu

25 Jul

Ooo friends, I have exciting news: I found BOTH of my cameras AND their chargers! Wahoo! That means real posts with real pictures this week. Huzzah! In the meantime, I wanted to share this awesome video made by the boy starring none other than my sweet li’l Sully. Behold and be glad you did.

Catch you again soon!

This one’s for the girls.

14 Jul

No, but seriously, gents, if you’re the type to be squeamish about lady talk, you’ll want to high-tail it on outta here. Of course, if you’re one of those guys, I seriously recommend getting over it if you plan to live with, love, marry, or befriend any of us with the longer life spans.

Caveats aside, I want to talk about menstrual cycles – ‘cause really, who doesn’t?! I spent many years suffering through the cramps and bloating and crankiness and general ickiness associated with that most special time of the month. Over the years, I have found some tricks that really, really help, so I wanted to share them all with you. I’m sure you all know this, but of course, I’m not a doctor, so do not use my advice in lieu of a medical professional’s.

Anyway, here is my lady-time kit of choice:

Let’s go through it starting with the purple tea bag at far left.

Allegro Organic Queen Bee Balance Tea: Also known as Cranky B*tch Tea, as my co-worker and I affectionately call it. If you’re into teas or herbals at all, you’ve probably read about raspberry leaf and its role in helping with menstrual cramps. I couldn’t find any good studies on it (other than its controversial use during pregnancies), but hundreds of years of anecdotal evidence support its use. Add mine to the list. I feel a lot better when I drink this stuff around my period. In addition to raspberry leaf, it also contains alfalfa (a mild diuretic to help with bloating), spearmint (which helps to regular menstrual cycles), chaste tree berry (which helps with a whole host of menstrual ailments), and dandelion leaf (another diuretic).

Calcium: Did you know that calcium helps to alleviate menstrual cramps? Yep, the science says so, and I can attest to it first-hand. I generally try to get vitamins and minerals through a varied diet, but during my cycle, I pop a few extra calcium citrate supplements (never carbonate, because it upsets my stomach). I take one every morning with my magnesium and then one or two more during the day if cramps strike. It’s like magic!

Magnesium: I take a powdered supplement for migraine prevention (and someday I’ll actually do a post about this, too), but I find that its muscle-relaxant quality helps with cramps, too. Did you know that women are more prone to blood-sugar crashes during their periods, too? Magnesium helps to alleviate spikes and drops in glucose levels. Again, I like to eat magnesium-rich foods, but as a migraine sufferer, I need a higher dose than the average person. I’ve read that it’s beneficial to take 350-360 mg in supplement form for three days at the beginning of your period. Just be warned: it can have a laxative effect, so if you aren’t used to the stuff, proceed with caution!

Water: Water, water, water. Seriously. It’s the cure-all for everything, right? When you’re dealing with bloating, the answer is a resounding YES. Drink it constantly. Embrace the constant bathroom trips as breaks from the work day.

Alter Eco Fair Trade Dark Chocolate Quinoa Midnight Crunch Bar: Awwwww yeeeeeeah. This chocolate is amazing, seriously. It’s fair trade, organic, vegan, and tastes like HEAVEN. Not only that, but it’s full of fiber, protein, and iron. Clearly, chocolate bars are not a health food, but when the craving strikes, this is the bar to grab. As I mention above, your blood sugar is less stable during your period, which means, in part, that I become a ravenous beast. The protein (2 g per serving) and fiber (4 g per serving) help to regulate the roller coaster. Also, women are prone to anemia due to blood loss, and this bar boasts a whopping – get this – 30% of your iron needs per serving. Wow! Did I mention it’s also delicious? The bar has 2.5 servings, just the right amount to get me through the worst two or three days of each period.

Sensible Foods Organic Soy Nuts: This product, once again, helps with the glucose drop/ravenous beast thing. It does so with only 110 calories and 7 mg of sodium per serving, plus it has a whipping 8 g of protein and 5 of fiber. Plus, they’re crunchy and satisfy your craving for saltiness without all the sodium. The bag has two servings.

Things that are noticeably absent from my list:

Sodium: Speaking of the soy nuts, sodium is no bueno during your menstrual cycle. It causes the bloaties, and I have noticed a link between eating too much salt and more painful cramps. I try to eat out less during my period because I have no idea how much sodium is lurking in my food.

Caffeine: Well, other than the chocolate bar. Caffeine exacerbates a whole slew of PMS symptoms, including cramping, headaches, breast tenderness, irritability, and pretty much everything else you can think of. Skip it and opt for herbal teas for a few days.

So that’s my list. Who has things to add?

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